Hindsight is 20/20, and yes, we can see clearly today; but ten years ago our vision was clouded. It seems we were missing many pieces of the puzzle. We were seeing "through a glass darkly"(1 Cor. 13:12). When I say "we," I am referring to my immediate family, as well as my four sisters, their children, and our stepfather. Mom has been diagnosed with Alzheimer's and vascular dementia. We saw many signs along the way, but nobody wanted to admit the truth. We chose to shrug off little memory slip-ups as just normal signs of aging.
Now, about ten years later, we are no longer able to remain in denial. Mom's condition has progressed to the point that a change is eminent, not just for her living arrangements, but also to ensure that her nutritional, safety, and hygiene needs are met. So, as we begin to walk through the next part of this journey, I want to share with others who may be coming along in the same paths through which we have already walked. Maybe the experiences of my family can be beneficial to someone else.
I will begin by telling of our first trip to the doctor which took place in July, 2007, and then progress to where we are today.
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Dear Judy, This blog is so good. You have done such a good job of putting your feelings into words. I have not had to deal with a loved one having this dreaded disease, however my heart goes out to you and all my "Hamilton" sisters because I love you all and your dear sweet mom. I pray daily that God will give you all strength, courage and patience while dealing with the situation.
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