A Soft Answer...

Proverbs 15:1, states, "A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous (harsh) words stir up anger." (KJV) If you believe what the Bible says, you may have studied and recognized this verse for its truth long ago. I have found it to be an extremely useful reminder in times of stress while teaching school. And, believe me, those stressful times come often! It is an effective "management tool" when the voices get loud, for the person in charge to lower his or her voice.

But never is Solomon's wisdom more needed than when dealing with someone with Alzheimer's disease. If only everyone could recite this verse before responding to the patient whose anger is escalating. Caretakers, memorize it. Loved ones, quote it before walking into the room of your dear patient. Then, when the patient begins to rant, it will be easier to respond quietly with overtones of love in your voice.

Will it always work? Maybe not. We don't know what will work with this awful disease from day to day. But it may improve our own blood pressure reading!